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Title: What our parents got up to
Post by: SandyB on September 09, 2007, 12:19:50 PM
I'm starting  this  topic  .. as  stories  of  what  our parents  got  up  to  in  their  young wild  days  still  sit  in my  head ...  the  early  days  .. stories  of   a  part of  town  called  "texas"    wild  parties  .. leaving  parties  and going  straight  to work  .  fights .. love affairs  ..  the  do's  ,,  the  functions ,, the dressing  up  .. the  clothes  of  a  bygone  era  .. the dancing  slippers that  women  folded  into  their  handbags .. they  would  arrive  at  a  dance  in  the  stillettoes  and  don  the   slippers  in  order to  glide around the floor ..   Robert , thats how your  Mom  could  glide .. a  pair  of  silver  or  gold  dancing  slippers ...   First  picture ..     damm  the  names  have slipped  me .. but  I  will  name  the  picture  "tres elegant  "   my  mom on  the  right .. they  knew  how  to  dress  in  those  days ... names  Kitty mc Call  Bob Mead  and  Mother   ... correct  me  but  thats  what  comes  to  me  now ..   I  will  continue  to  post  more  as  I  get  time ...  and ask  you  all  to  submit  same  .. our parents , remembering  and  honouring them   and also seeing  them  at  play ..
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: Ann Gander (nee Greenway) on September 09, 2007, 01:29:37 PM
How about some outfits from the New Year do's?
Vikings - Biff Hannabuss, John Weait and Arthur Greenway (Dad); their wenches - Joyce Greenway (Mum), Eileen Hannabus, Gladys Weait.
Don't know who won but I understand they used to be amazing events! 
This one, I think, was 1965.  I believe the flagon was filled with something alcoholic!
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: mavis(smith) on September 09, 2007, 02:41:41 PM
sorry idid not rotate picture
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: Michael Alexander on September 09, 2007, 05:04:10 PM
Man! Sandy is right, they knew how to dress in style in those days... My father still insists on wearing a jacket and tie to Lodge, Functions or a dinner out........ Just the way the Queen would have it,,,, To Order gentlemen!    :D
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: SandyB on September 09, 2007, 05:15:25 PM
Oops  got  it  George  Mead   not  Bob .....
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: Bev Coates (Now Walker) on September 13, 2007, 09:02:12 PM
sandy you mention george mead......ive always had the name Mary Mead in my head.......the song by Jim Reeves....distant drums....the line where he sings....so mary marry me....ive always sung...so mary mary mead............is she a real person.?....cause i also have a story of her in my head but dont know if its the song lyrics putting it there,,,,ha ha...... ???
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: Diana Rudd (Boehme) on September 13, 2007, 09:59:23 PM
Mary Mead married one of the Hockney brothers think it was Dave. She was a teacher.
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: Michael Alexander on September 14, 2007, 06:21:10 AM
When our folks would abandon us at home in the evening times to go to the SPortsmans, they would always return with those little packets of biltong and a small coke for each of us..... guilt compensation, no wonder I am overweight today..... ;D
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: bobbysmith on September 15, 2007, 12:46:59 AM
my god anne,the men were horney in them days,have things changed i wonder,ha ha,great pic
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: SandyB on September 16, 2007, 09:11:00 AM
One  of  the NewYears  parties  ...
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: SandyB on September 16, 2007, 09:26:14 AM
Oops  wrong button ..  One of  Myparents  new years  parties  of  long  time  ago ...   Once again  pity   a  lot   of  pictures  got lost  and  only a few  remain  ..    Some  of You  May  remember  Archie  and Sue  Gunn   ...  I  unearthed a  picturre  of  archies  first wife  Maisie ...  she  would  have  been one  of  the  many " Aunties "  in  my life .. it  was  not  meant  to be so ..   when  my Mom  went into  labour  with  me .. and   I understand it  was  a long one , I weighed  10 and a quarter  pounds  at  birth explains  it  all .. Maisie  Gunn  was  booked  in  for  I  understand  a  sinus  surgery   on  the  same day  ...  She  still  wished  my Mom  well  and  Mom  to  her good  luck   .. something  about Maisie  giving her  watch  to  Mom  to keep   ( grey cells  are rattling  here ) ..   Maisie  never  came  back  from  the  theatre  ..  complications  with  aenasthetic ...   Mom had  two  major  events  on  one  day  .. an  arrival  in  the form  of  me  and  a departure  in  the  form  of  Maisie   .. I  include  a  pic with her  as  well   ...
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: SandyB on September 16, 2007, 09:30:06 AM
More ..
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: Gary Mc Manus on September 25, 2007, 12:50:09 PM
Hi Mike,

I guess your parents were with my parents, as we used to get the same ;-)

Quote from: Michael Alexander on September 14, 2007, 06:21:10 AM
When our folks would abandon us at home in the evening times to go to the SPortsmans, they would always return with those little packets of biltong and a small coke for each of us..... guilt compensation, no wonder I am overweight today..... ;D


and now I try to carry on the tradition...

Gary
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: Michael Alexander on September 25, 2007, 08:03:56 PM
Yep! our parents were always together, Stauchlager, Hexen, Sportsmans, 1 st ave or 7th, and sometimes your dad escaped to the Golg Course.... hehehehe!

:)

Believe it or not, I don't go to the pubs much here anymore, get pissed at home and get to play my own music,( if Michele lets me, that is! )

:o
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: SandyB on October 11, 2007, 02:09:59 PM
The  night  of  Champagne  and  Blue  cheese ..
One  night  in  the  early  hours   an  after  party  trawled  into  our  home   ...  Mom  Dad  and  the  gang ...  Mom  must  have been  bored  with  the company  or  maybe  she  was  just  in a silly  mood  so she  woke  me  up  and  said  she  would  teach  me  about  appreciation  of the finer things  in  life ..   at the age  of  9 ?? ..  So there  was  I  now seated   on  the  floor   in  front  of    her ...  She  had  on  this  reversible  evening  coat   ..  one  side  a beautiful   satiny emerald   green   and  the other side  something  that looked  like  a  christmas  tree .  that   christmas  tree  was  never worn  on  the  outside ..  being  reversible  it  had inside  and outside  pockets   and  boy  were they  deep  cos  out  of the  inside  pockets   she  fished  two  bottles  of  champagne  and  two   wedges  of  blue cheese ..  the  trick  she said was  to   take  a  bit of  blue  cheese   and then follow with  a  healthy swig  of  bubbly .. Not  a bad  idea  at  all !!   the  blue  cheese was  a  bit  too powerful  for  my  yet  uneducated  palate    so  I  snuck  the  pieces  given  to  my  dog  waiting  expectantly  on  the  side ..   Yup  between  the two  of us  we  finished  the  two  bottles of  bubbly   .. I  was  by now   very  unsteady   and had  difficulty  getting  up  .. but Mother  .. she  seemed  to  have  hollow  legs  stood  up  daintily  on  the  high heels  ,   no  unsteadiness  and  walked  me  to  my  room  .. " good  night  son "  and  off  she went to party  more ..   I  remember  my  dad  saying  that  she  had  a  cast iron  constitution , many  a time  partying  the  toughest guys   including  him  under  the  table   . A  true party  girl !!  and  a    memory of  her in  one of her  crazy  moments ....
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: Dalene Steenkamp (Coetzee) on October 29, 2007, 08:15:48 PM
Had we but known how in fashion those old outfits with all the bling-things that were worn by our mom's would be today, we would have kept it all in tissue paper.  They never went to a dance in jeans and T-shirts, except when it was a house party.  No, the evening gowns were plucked from the closet, clutch bags and all the other tooties that went with it.  And those beads they used to wear around their necks!
Even some of the "crimpelene" stuff is back in fashion now!  ( CRIMP-TO-MY LEAN outfits we called them later -  most of the chubby tannies also wore them - looked like they had gone through a few hailstorms and the dents & bulges all showed, but who cared?  They were in fashion.)  My goodness......  those siletto's they wore with the sharp point toes.  You could actually kick a snake in the a.... and not hit any other part of it's body.  And then they still managed to keep their balace on them after a few glasses of whatever they had.  Classy stuff, man!  I still remember a dress my mom had - bright canarie yellow and a pair of gold high heeled platform shoes  (I think those were also a hit in the late 70's). 

It's true - what goes around, comes around.
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: SandyB on November 02, 2007, 12:17:16 PM
More  pics  ..  One  of  my Moms Gang   was Margaret Pearson ..  all  I  see  is  a  naughty  look  on  Margarets face  .. wonder  what  the  two  of  them  got  up  to  in  their  heydays ?? Also a  Picture  of  My  Godfather  Uncle  Sandy Laughlin   in  his  young days ..
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: SandyB on November 10, 2007, 09:26:48 AM
FOR  SHEENA ,,  HERE A  PIC  OF   YOUR  NAN , MY  AUNTIE  JEAN ,,  BEFORE   SHE  EVEN  WENT  GREY ..  AND  MORE  SO  I DID  NOT  KNOW  AUNTIE  JEAN  SMOKED   OR AT LEAST  I  DO  NOT  REMEMBER   IT  ..  BUT  THERE  SHE IS  LIGHTING UP  A  FAG ....
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: SandyB on November 14, 2007, 12:28:32 PM
Come on  Own up   ...  who  inserted   the  "its  a  beautiful  thing " smiley  into  the  story  of  the  the  night  of champagne  and  blue  cheese  ..   Thanks  , I take it  as  a compliment  to  a  truly amazing  woman ....
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: SandyB on November 14, 2007, 02:36:33 PM
Got it!  technology  ...  just inserting the  smileys  ...  Meve Rydoff
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: SandyB on November 16, 2007, 07:23:11 AM
Here some  more  ..  My Mom singing  at  one  of  the  Do's ....   she  did  it  in  her  very  wild  early  days  and  then  just  stopped ( dont  know  why)  ..  I remember  Uncle  Arthur  Davis  had  some  tapes  of  her  singing .. I  remember  " Bye  Bye  Blackbird " Goody  Goody   etc  "   and  some  others  if  I really  stir  up  the  grey  cells  ( afraid of  the resultant  soup )    a  beautiful  soft  voice  with  the  remants  of  the  scottish accent  ... 
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: SandyB on September 01, 2008, 09:33:24 PM
As I started to post i got this  warning ..  this topic has not been posted  in  for 120 days etc etc .. well  i will keep it alive  and hope that others have also got more to contribute .. i just been catching snatches of the movie " Mrs Henderson " one of the songs that came up was  " Goody  goody ' oneof the songs my mom  sung  yonks ago .. such a pity those tapes have in all likelyhood disapeared ... another equally strange thing i noticed while going hrought he pics again mentioning My Mum and Margaret Pearson .. thick as thieves and i think  so damm mischevious together .. Observe the pic they two holding hands ..
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: Melanie Jonker on September 02, 2008, 07:45:29 AM
Quote from: Diana Rudd (Boehme) on September 13, 2007, 09:59:23 PM
Mary Mead married one of the Hockney brothers think it was Dave. She was a teacher.


I think Mary Mead married Tony Hockney (the taller brother) if I remember correctly. We have some old copies of the Newsletter at home and I'm sure there's a story about their wedding.
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: Leon Sumter on September 06, 2008, 08:56:55 PM
BTW. Toni Hockney and family reside in EDGEMEAD.
Toni plays guitar in a local band in our local pizza joint in EDGEMEAD.
Leon Sumter
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Post by: Diana Rudd (Boehme) on September 06, 2008, 09:01:23 PM
Would that be Verdi's?
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: Leon Sumter on December 16, 2008, 06:14:47 PM
yes, Verdi's.
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: Leon Sumter on December 18, 2008, 11:25:20 AM
the Edgemead shopping center is currently undergoing a complete makeover with more shops being added amongst others an 'ocean basket' fish restuarant and a coffee shop.
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: Cherry (Alcock) on December 19, 2008, 09:25:07 AM
Dave married Mary; Tony married Miriam (?) Gilbert Kermis' sister as I recall.
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: Richard Opperman on December 19, 2008, 02:37:14 PM
On the nail Cherry - saw their photograph in one of the old 70s newsletters Mike had put out during the reunion.
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Post by: Leon Sumter on December 22, 2008, 07:37:01 PM
Goodness, never knew this ! Toni married Gilies sister ? Miriam is obviously from Gerry Kermis' 1st marriage.
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: Bob Molloy on July 13, 2009, 11:43:22 PM
Hi Sandy,
                 That pic of your mom singing certainly brought back the memories. She had a superb voice and a very pleasant Scottish lilt. Her repertoire included not only the pop songs of the day but also some old Scottish ballads. The songs that stand out for me were I Belong to Glasgow (or, more properly, Ah Belang tae Glasgie) which always had everyone in full chorus and the old Harry Lauder ballad: Keep Right On To The End of the Road.
She had to be almost dragged on stage but once she got there she was the entertainer superb. On one occasion, I think it may have been a New Year's Eve Ball, she and a band member called Poingdestre (never known as anything else but Pointy) put on an impromptu double act that had everyone in stitches. Pointy was a very affable, short little guy with clownish features who played the concertina boere orkes style. To hear him launch into the Glasgae song - played in tikkie draai manner - with your mom was somehow or other so ridiculous that the crowd roared for more.
She always featured large at New Year's Eve with a rendering of Auld Lang Syne that had everyone gulping with emotion. In fact your mom was something of a celebrity in town and always in demand on social occasions.
Thanks again for the memories.
Regards,
Bob.   
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: SandyB on July 14, 2009, 10:13:48 AM
THANK YOU BOB  FOR  THAT LOVELY MEMORY I STILL HEAR THAT LOVELY SINGING  VOICE   ECHOING IN MY MEMORY  -- I TRUST YOU ENJOYED THE PHOTOS ...
Title: Re: What our parents got up to
Post by: SandyB on July 14, 2009, 10:27:13 AM
Pointy  Poingdestre .. yes indeed  a comical   man ..   mom  worked at the Veg  market  in the early days with his wife   Sue  before  she moved  to shopping  center ( still remember visiting her there when I was  2 bricks and tickey high ) , now there was another mismatched couple ,, Sue a  tall   strong woman with a big strong  earthy  voice ..  her hubby pointy  short .. mutt and jeff .. many stories of misadventures  of pointy .. one  night he wanted to go out with his pals ..   Sue  said  no !!   so  he said  well he's  going to bed ,, sulked off  in  huff to one  of the boys  rooms and locked  door ( ha  ha  intent was to  sneak out of bedroom window )    waited a respectable time  to do the sneak  out of window thing .. jumped out of window to get the shock of his life .. big  Sue  second guessing  him   had  filled  one  of those  huge  zinc wash tubs  with  boiling water  and placed it below the window ..  the howls of pain  alerted Sue  , who  then went  out  and  escorted  him  back into the house ..   a recollection   from  my Mom ..