For all Sandy Buchannons friends...........please read

[Julian Laubser]

Only the good die young. I remember Sandy he's brother and mother well.She worked in the main retail store. Lovely family.Condolences ..Julian

[Ahrens]

Hi Sandy, my family did know yours back in the day.  I'm sympathetic towards your loss, as it is never easy, but as you say you have all these above cyberfriends with their comforting words.  Be strong and remember the good always. Fond Regards Courtenay van Eeden (Ahrens) and Freddie Ahrens

[SandyB]

Thanks Courtenay ...  I remember at one stage  when I  was in Windhoek  on army camp and in a bit of a situation ,, I was taken in by your Mom and Dad  ...   I remember the kindness ,,,

    Sandy

[SandyB]

SO AMAZING HOW TIME PASSES .. YET PEOPLE REMEMBER AND GIVE LITTLE GEMS ... I RELATE A STORY FROM TODAY  PASTED FROM A MAIL GIVEN TO A DEAR FRIEND ..   THERE ARE SPECIAL WORDS  HERE AND YES THE CIRCUMSTANCES GIVEN UNDER ..  AND YES THE PATIENCE OF SOMEONE WHO CARES  WAITING FOR THE OPPORTUNE  MOMENT .  THATS WHAT MAKES THE DIFFS ..  THIS PASSAGE  CAN RELATE TO  ANYONE  WE MISS   THAT HAS WALKED LIFE PATH WITH US ..  I GIVE IT WITH THE LOVE PASSED ON ...>>>>>> BELOW THE MESSAGE TO  A FRIEND AND ATTACHED THE  SPECIAL PIECE OF PAPER ..

quite a week .. in many respects .. me finally been able to  relax .. the "dayjob"  work  started  spinning  for now ,  the  raw material problems at bay  .. the shop  picking up turnover ,,..now have been  taking  afternoons off at least .. do a bit of me time . and catch up on the books and all the other shyt that will bring me into tax and other compliance ..  we had a fair day  and  at the end  Linda  our chef /cook/ friend  who has stuck by us  and through living with us knows  so much  about where we come from ,, at the end of the  day  Paul  had gone off to see  his  very ill friend Lynn ,,  we having a glass of wine on the balcony , she says " I think the time is right to give this to you "  its a piece of paper ,,  slightly yellowed at the folds..  she  tells me  the night before  the  4th anniversary of Johnno's  passing  she was going through  some books she was unpacking  shaking each one  for bookmarks etc and out falls this piece of paper with this message on it .. she  said  she was  hesitant to give it to me on the day , instead waiting for the moment .. and today was it ..  so it was given to me .. i have to share it ..  I think it applies in more than me   but in so many cases .. take note of the second passage ..about the joy ..  further more  the  last passage line ..
I share this with you ..

[Michael Alexander]

Wow! Sandy, bet you got goosebumps when you read that!

[SandyB]

Indeed so ,, and your goosebumps  Michael ??  the universe  drops thing for us through  any means ,, and thus was special and hence the need to  share it ,,,  this is for all  who have had loss and still have tricky moments ...

[Diana Rudd (Boehme)]

    

[SandyB]

Well the timeline passed on wed 20th , 5 years on and pleased to say keeping the ethos of ' it gets better with time only if you want it to " has applied , not that  I  will ever forget , I'm sure anyone in connect with their soul realises that pain anniversaries thereof are imprinted into our cellular and when the time approaches we experience pain again , I did the " where  do you want to be ? " talk to myself , it revealed to me that I been adding the layers to keep me busy , so busy that I have not granted meself enough time for ME ,,  so I move on again in realisation that I must (and indeed subconsciously ) slowly withdrawing  and trying to make the space for  more of ME again ,,,  I say again      for all that have been there for me ,,  the life adventure journey continues ,,,

[Diana Rudd (Boehme)]

        xxx

[Michael Alexander]

Cheers Sandy! Sun still gonna rise every morning just like it always does..... even long after we are all gone....

Just amazed that 5 years has gone by so quickly.....

[SandyB]

Too True  Michael ...  Mike Batt , the sun is only shining like it always does .. its for us to notice and acknowledge it ,,

[henniek]

I raced to arrive - I raced to survive - And guess what ?  I lost it all . I found that only relations last. Therefor Sandy , .. Please  make time for yourself and your loved ones

[SandyB]

Tonight  6 years  on ,,  I quote , and Michael reason for divesting as well ..   its  all good        facebook link as well  off to bed me at peace ,,


Tonight 6 years on taken away from me at time of Ying Yang energy exchange 03:00 in the morning , my petitions to universe to save you answered with " you life is about to change" , indeed so it has . A road of learning to deal with loss , then helping others to deal with loss . Then adding layers to my life to keep me stimulated till the events that have come where I now take steps to simplify my life once again as I know I have lost contact with my core , a powerful potential that I may not waste . John Arthur Savage Reid you remain irreplaceable . From our Halcyon days when the world was our oyster and life was carefree till the time when we could reconnect



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