Billy the Bully

[Barbara Eia (Brownless)]

Its gone diana been replaced by   15_3_27      bye_bye    image20      

thants a shame we will have to complain to the admin staff

[Michael Alexander]

Mike S is busy reorganising the smileys for us.... so please send him your hate mails.....   :emot19:   

[Dalene Steenkamp (Coetzee)]

                                   



I see they have been put back....   Mike S  fears a    image20   from you Diana, that's why...

[Diana Rudd (Boehme)]

AND SO HE SHOULD, BILLY THE BULLY'S GOT NOTHING ON ME.

I'VE JUST SEEN THERE'S AN ICON FOR SANDY AND I     

[georg ruf jr.]

 
  :emot19:

[bobbysmith]

why wasnt i bullied,it makes you wonder why certain kids were bullied and others were not.i allways had friends and when together ,the soutie kids in my group and the boere kids ,we all got along.dont get me wrong,we had our differences but we did not single kids out for special treatment[bullying]i remember an occasion when florries brother ,billy[not the bully]1970,was being picked on at school ,the kid/bully in question will remain nameless,gloss paint a plenty was poured over him in the alleyway in 6th or 7th ave after sports practice,he didnt come to school for a week,we were told he had a cold,cold comfort to us.how .to this day,i hate bullys.put your selves into their shoes/minds.does not bear thinking about,.stopping now,i am getting myself wound up,laters

[SandyB]

In total agreement Bobby  .. Bullies..  somewhere  in the site i posted about a defining moment  .. kind of changed me .. .. you  had individual bullying and crowd bullying .. It would hurt me to see some poor soul  .. and now my memory takes me back  .. in the school grounds there was a huge palm tree .. I recall some poor  girl .. cowering with her back to the palm tree  and this  crowd standing in front of her teasing taunting and calling her all sort of names .. she was sobbing  and   asking them to just leave her alone .. the more she did  the  more they taunted ..  crowd cowardice  with more cowardly  bully instigators   fanning the  flames .. .. i shunned it .. for that you also became a target  at times ..  a price to pay but yes better in the long term ..  i recall   that  i would write  an  encouraging note   to some of these victims  , just saying that i am  a " secret friend ' and that i could see their pain   and that  what  people were saying about them was untrue  and  that  they should  just hold  their heads up  high and try to ignore  what  was  happening ..

[SandyB]

@ Bobby   its under this shortcut ..   http://www.oranjemundonline.com/Forum/index.php?topic=604.0

[bobbysmith]

every one to their own,you wrote a nice note,i deliverd the same they did,when delivered ,i said,how does that feel,does that make me as bad as them,alls i wanted to do was to make them feel the same as the victim,if truth be known ,i felt terrible afterwards,then felt great becoase the victim wasnt picked on again,this has been my mind set all through life

[SandyB]

Like said .. you did it your way .. and  no it did not make you a bad person.. cowardly bullies  normally back off when  given the same medicine ..

[Bev Coates (Now Walker)]

I so know how you feel Johan....i was bulled in O/M by a young lad there....the brother of my bestfriend......for some reason that boy absolutly hated me....wanted to kill me and often had his hands round my neck....i was terrified of him.....i had never done anything wrong to him..........one day when walking to the pool with my friend and my mum.....he came riding on his bike along side of us a with a gang of his friends.......he ordered his sister to go home.......she argued she wasnt going home ......my mum then told him she was taking us swimming....and he slapped her straight across her face.....we were horrified.........i ran straight home to tell my dad...however...mum stopped me saying....your dad will want to go and kill him for doing that.....and he'll get the sack and go to prison....so i had to promise never to tell my dad.....which i never have to this day......when i found my best friend again after 41 years....one fo the first things i asked her was......where is your brother......i SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO wanted to talk to him....not with any intension of revenge....but just to ask him as an adult why he had so much anger towards me.......unfotunatly he had died so i will never get to ask that question........theres other people from my past i would love to meet again and slap....but he wasnt one of them...i just wanted an answer.......


Strangly enough i went to see a clairvoyeant (crap speller), she told me she was talking to my mum...told me her name and lots of other stuff to convince me it was all real stuff.........and she also asked me.....who is *****...at the time i said i didnt know...it wasnt till afterwards  i realized oh of course i know someone of that name........it was my mum lettin me know it was her as this was a secret me and her shared.......at the time........   ( does that make sense...lol...i know what i mean anyway ol )

[SandyB]

If one puts it in the context of the name mentioned , then yes accept  it as  the " secret ' and a way of letting you know ..   some clairvoyants are very clever  and intuitive mind readers and prompters  and will pull info out of  you without you even realising it .. so one has to be careful .. I always  say that if they tell you what you did not expect  to  hear or not  necessarily  what  you wanted to hear then  they pretty much on track ..

[bobbysmith]

yo bev,got me hoggers off ready for that slap,lmfho

[Bev Coates (Now Walker)]

i know what u mean sandy..........i went yet again to what i was lead to believe as a fantastic spiritualist....and what a load of rubbish.......she told 3 of us exactly the same twaddle   ......we all went together so she knew we would ask each other surley.....and she didnt even vary the things she told us.....we felt right idiots on the way home....just having given her £90 betwen us..................................but the other one i told you about ...she was something else............she asked me who percy was........didnt mean anything to me at the time.....but as youll agree its a not a common name......so now i convined that was who she meant........


@ Bobby    :emot112:     e154     there u go xx

[Carl Wrbka]

Geez Bev, 90 quid ! That's over R1000. She must have been smiling after you left...lol