Bev Coates

SandyB · August 06, 2008, 06:00:59 PM

Just got a PM from Bev this morning .. seems lifes really throwing it at her ... apart from all thats hit her ,her partner having bypass .. going into depression ... she seems to have had 3 " mini strokes " I'm sure it has a lot to do with all that has being going on .. She asked me to apologise for her absence from site but not feeling good .. lets all hold thumbs for her that its just a warning sign to slow down and not take things so to heart .. Lifes events , good are there to bear us up and the bad are there to make one stronger and wiser .. its all how you manage it and handle it ( trust me had my fair share in the last 10 months or so ).. thankfully intact .. so lets send our good wishes ... and to take care of herself .. we do want to see her at the reunion ...
Sandy

Michael Alexander · August 06, 2008, 06:35:20 PM

Come'On Aunty Bev...... Get well soon, quickly....... It's no Fun just picking on Aunty Diana.... Plus I need somebody in here for the Night shift.......

Diana Rudd (Boehme) · August 06, 2008, 06:41:53 PM

Take care,thinking of you. Don't worry I can carry that load of "love" from Michael. Get better first and then we'll deal with him.

Bev Coates (Now Walker) · August 06, 2008, 11:40:20 PM

just a quick hi and thanx to u all......be back very soon now im being told to sit and do nothing for a while.......my only concern right now is getting to the reunion.......what if they say i cant fly.....can i come by boat ???? could i drive there???? how long would it take me to walk????....ill be there no mater what, god willing.....and im sure he is,,....he would not have let me found everyone then let me die before the reunion would he......ooooq hope not......sandys right its the stress ive had......and i did dtop taking the tablets for the depression as i wanted to get back to work and felt i couldnt while all i wanted to do was sleep......silly i know and i only just dare go tell my doctor i hadnt been taking them after leaving the hospital last night...........anyway must go, see u all soon....luv bev xxx

Patricia Lotte · August 07, 2008, 03:18:54 AM

Hey Bev, just take those pills, put your feet up and relax. Let those around you pamper you back to health as we need you to represent us absent soals at the reunion. Take care of yourself. Life is so worth it!

Michael Alexander · August 07, 2008, 06:18:10 AM

Hey Aunty Bev, You ain't gonna die, get that thought outta yer head.... LIsten To Patricia, put yer feet up, get plenty of sleep, take yer Meds.... and I will speak to Magmoed to send a Camel Train to collect you.....

Ps...Just in case you do not make it to the reunion, can I have your Braaimeat?

pam spackman · August 08, 2008, 02:46:46 PM

Hi Bev ,

Please look after yourself, and do NOTHING!! that's an order!!!

Do what you are told and take ALL your mutee (sp!) Let everyone look

after YOU!! Am thinking of you

Pam

Bev Coates (Now Walker) · August 23, 2008, 10:10:57 AM

Hi everyone...thanx yet again for all your good wishes.....and for all the spiritualist believrs out there.....let me tell you i went to see a medium the other day as i had had it booked for a few months........she told me i shold have died two weeks ago and i was sent a warning to slow down....she said it was my time but they decided to give me another chance cause id not had a fair life up to now....she said id been given this second go at life to make the most of it........and now there IS light at the end of the tunnel......most of the mega problems ive had this last couple of years have now been resolved......firstly by my partner moving out....beeen killing is both for a long time......we realize now the start of the problems we must have both have been suffering from depression...and rather than talking we started hurting each other....anyway i am happy hes gone.......and were getting on now better than ever........i miss him cause he was like my right arm in many ways.....but im gona take the advise the medium gave me....and think im in for a good time......and can i thank everyone for their prayers....what did i tell you....god wasnt gona let me die when i so need to get to the reunion........and he didnt......but he was meant to.......i feel so lucky for that and sure all your holding thumbs must have helped.......see you all soon...when everyone stopps fussing around and i can get on here more.......off out tonight....dressed in TUTU's......will send some pics...if i dare......lol...
xxxxx and tomorro....i will have a rest.....it was a warning to slow down.....not stop....god knows i cant just sit on my

all day lol

SandyB · August 23, 2008, 10:23:16 AM

Good to see you here Hon .. and on the mend .. yes some relationships can become destructive to both involved .. so moving on and striking out on your own again is the best thing to do .. live your life for yourself and not for others or through others .. have you got the forms for clearance etc .. the time is drawing near and before we know .. we will be driving to O'mund

Sandy X

Bev Coates (Now Walker) · August 23, 2008, 10:50:04 AM

No sandy not booked my flight yet either with everything thats been going on i havent had time to think about it yet....remind me what i have to do for the clearence...also katie n linzi are both coming with me and hopefully they are travelling up to O/M with Sean...cant spell his surname.....i know he'll forgive me for that, but if he cant make it then nic n mike are still up to now joining us and will take linzi n katie.....i know you think this should be a time for me........but they are very close to me and knowing how much it means to me they want to be there.......also now with the mini stroke thing i think theyre scared to let me come alone...which i can understand....but hey can these girls party.......so a good time will be had by all lol

SandyB · August 23, 2008, 11:00:09 AM

Sean .. spelling looks correct .. Ok now accomodation for Kate and Linzi ?? maybe we chat tonight ??

Bev Coates (Now Walker) · August 23, 2008, 11:19:43 AM

lol...yes im sure sean was the right spelling for sean...im not that thick sandy....well some might think i am lol......its his surname i cant spell...but its something like....neiwv blahblahblha....cant remeber......hang on nieuwoudt....told you i couldnt spell it lol....i chat to him lots on face book...yes we should chat tonight ......im going out around 7.30 ish i think it is.....so i could call you around 7 if you free then......and if i bloody remember.......txt me if i dont call ok lol...........about accomodation........i was thinking a tent in someones garden would be more authentic for them...lol.....but maybe i should see if theres room with us.....lol

Michael Alexander · August 24, 2008, 08:37:26 PM

Aunty Bev, I'm glad to see that you are on the up...... Good news.....

Diana Rudd (Boehme) · August 24, 2008, 08:59:55 PM

Bev Coates (Now Walker) · August 26, 2008, 05:21:43 PM

Thanx again everyone......i feel fine now....just waiting for the results of by brain scan...yes they did find one ...to all you doubters..........lol and hoping then i can get on with things....
Sandy...you didnt remind me to call you..........and then i forgot.....lol...too busy getting ready for the night out.......was a late night too as at 3 am....after the night club turned out .....1000000's of people poured to sheffield to see the demolition of 2 cooling towers that had been an old power station........so i think it was around 5 am when i got in......not what the doctor ordered...but been taking it easy ever since........
Just been talking to Bobby Smith this afternoon too...he always

me up........now all i can say is ..

ROLL ON NOVEMBER>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>